AnonymousSo I'm bisexual and my mom knows, but my dad doesn't and I don't know how to tell him because he's homophobic and I'm scared, I don't want him to hate me, but I want him to know...what should I do?
Try getting your mom and you to sit down with your dad and tell him slowly. You’re his daughter after all, he should love you no matter what. If he starts being homophobic with you then just tell him you’re his daughter, not an alien so he should treat you like his daughter.
AnonymousMy best friend has nearly had a friendship ruined by one of her old friends, her old friend kept telling her to stop talking to this guy, but they weren't even flirting or anything, now the old friend keeps talking to same people that my best friend talks to, and I don't know how to confront it because it's making my best friend really aggravated and annoyed
It seems like the old friend is getting possessive. Your best friend needs to be upfront to them and say that they need their own friends to talk to, it’s annoying that they don’t and it’s perhaps a little creepy. Or maybe tell your best friend to not talk about other friends that she talks to to this old friend.
AnonymousSo my friend who said she is straight did some stuff with me the other week. I'm a girl. A few weeks before she said she would never let anyone go down on her unless she truly loved them and wanted to be with them forever, but she let me. She is still claiming she's straight and I'm just so confused. I am in love with her! I want to be with her though, but she says she doesn't feel the same. I don't know what to do and it's tearing my apart.
Just speak to her and say that if she did stuff with you the other week then she is not straight. Maybe she’s trying to reject what she did? However, she can’t keep saying that she’s straight. And afterwards make sure you remind her of what she said, you know, about the ‘never letting anyone go down on her unless she truly loved them and wanted to be with them forever’, tell her that she made no sense by saying that and doing something else.
Anonymousso one of my closet friend saw my scars and told my other friend who knows about it and now she won't talk to me or ask me about it and I feel that she doesn't even care. what do you think I should do?
She’s probably in shock, give her time. If, after a while, she still doesn’t speak to you then make conversation with her or maybe get your other friend, you and her to get together and speak it through. The other friend will keep it calm and will help make her see that her reaction was a little harsh towards you.
AnonymousContinue (D) I'm 19 and i am scared to death that this might really happen. I dont know what to do. I really cant manage to get good grades in university which starts in september.I am afraid i will do something really bad to myself.
I’m sorry but what? You’ve got into university, you’re obviously clever enough to get into it and the university people can see that you’re clever. They can’t force you into a marriage, it’s illegal and against you’re rights. Try your hardest in uni, I’m sure you’ll do fine. I suggest talking to your mom and brother, if they haven’t got into uni or been through it then they’ve got no reason to talk about you.
AnonymousMy bf is the eldest son in an Indian family and I'm scared that they will push him into an arrange marriage now that they know about me, his mom is in denial we r together.
They can’t force him into a marriage with you if you say no to it and are of no Indian cultural background because forced marriages beyond religion are illegal. If his mom is in denial that you two are together then arrange it with your boyfriend and his family that you could come around for dinner.
AnonymousSo this really hot new guy in my class texted me a couple months ago. We started talking a lot... Most times after school to the wee hours. He said I was hot and that he liked me, and I kinda fell in love with him. But he never really talked to me in person at school and it really hurt me. Then he didn't text me for 10 days and finally I asked what I did wrong and he said nothing, that he was with another girl. We'd even gone on a couple dates... He said it got "too real". I hate being led on.
He’s a player and I feel sorry for you. You are amazing and when his girl realises what he’s like, she’ll won’t wanna be with him. If he can’t handle being real with someone then he shouldn’t be in a relationship anyway.
AnonymousThank you for CTL, and for not commuting suicide even when I'm aware that you would have liked to, long ago.
AnonymousHow many people go on to the next round?
Whoever gets the two questions correct.
AnonymousI clicked the link and it says it dosent exist