Anonymous
Okay so my best friend is always telling me she's there for me and she trusts her life with me. But she doesn't act like it? We go to different schools and she obviously has other friends there (who she's known longer than me) and she sees them ALL THE TIME but she'd rather hang out with them on the weekends instead of me. I mean, I hardly see her. I understand she has other friends but she's too busy to talk to me anymore. I've tried talking to her about it but nothing changes. What do I do?

Talk to her again and say it feels like she’s pushing you away and that she doesn’t care for you. Tell her you want to be able to see her more often than you do now and you do want it to change but tell her that you understand that she has other friends but she’s pushing you away and it’s not nice being on the receiving end of it.

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Anonymous
I told you about my friend who got a girlfriend and her girlfriend wouldn't stop bothering me. I've talked to my friend and she said once her girlfriend hates someone she'll comment on anything they do and there's nothing she can do. I can't talk to any teachers because i think they all hate me and i can't talk to my parents because they don't like me having a twitter and that would give them a reason to take it away when it's the only thing keeping me happy. I don't know what to do

If your friend can’t stop her girlfriend being childish then they shouldn’t be in a relationship. She’s too immature and is acting like a child. You need to try reporting the tweets on Twitter, the Twitter staff take cyber bullying very seriously.

1 hour ago • 1 notes



Anonymous
Do I post questions on the ask part on here?

Yes, you post the questions on the ask part. We then help when we get the messages, however, we do get a lot of submissions and questions (they all are in the ask box) so we do have to go through quite a few each day. We promise to try and help as much as possible though.

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Anonymous
So I told you about my friend that I did stuff with but she insisted that she's still straight. Well I want to ask her out. I want to be with her but I'm scared she'll just say no. I don't know what to do.

Ask her in a romantic way, take her a candle lit dinner, go for a romantic walk. But make sure when you ask her it’s in a unique and memorable way, it’ll mean more to the both of you.  

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Anonymous
I had sex for the first time this weekend with my boyfriend and we didn't use condom. He's been really worried and saying he thinks I might be pregnant. I don't know what to do. I can't tell anyone because I haven't been with him for that long..

When you have sex you need to have a condom OR be on your own contraception OR both, known as double dutch. Look at how far along you are in your menstrual cycle. If you’re in between 2 and 3 weeks then you have a chance of being pregnant. If you’re within the first week (you just had your period) or last week there’s a minute chance but you can still get pregnant. Talk with you boyfriend about taking contraception and say about which one is best for you two and talk about the consequences of your actions aka, speak about what you two will do if you are pregnant. If you are worried about being pregnant take a pregnancy test as soon as possible, I’d say take two or three just to make sure and usually you can get two or three in pack. Make sure in the future you use protection to prevent pregnancy.

1 day ago • 4 notes



Anonymous
I had this one friend who i got into a small fight with but her girlfriend went after me like a hungry wolf. Every day she indirects me mean stuff on twitter and it's getting to me and making my depression worse and i don't know what to do because telling the councelor at school won't help beause the counselor isn't really nice and i'm losing all hope because some of the things she says really hurts and is making me more insecure than i already am.

Talk to your friend. Her girlfriend needs to stop what she’s doing, it’s cyber bullying and so, you can report it and she would be dealt with. You could also try speaking to the girlfriend and you can say that it’s none of her business and she should keep her nose out of it, no matter what cause she’s now stirring things up and making things worse. Your school councillor sounds horrible, is there perhaps a teacher at school you can trust? You can tell them of the problem and they can deal with it and tell them that the councillor isn’t very nice.

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Anonymous
CONTINUE!!! because all of these things I was worried about are irrelevant at the end of the day because he means the absolute world to me and I lost that. I don't know if I can ever get him back but if you think there's any way please give me some advice because I can't live without him for much longer. Please answer me I feel so lost

He probably is stressed because of his mother’s breast cancer so he’s probably not acting in a decent way. Talk to him about what happened, about him saying he still loves you. It’s most likely him telling you to make sure you know how much he loves you still. Yes, he probably said it to stop you wanting to commit suicide but he just wanted you to know that he still cares for you and loves you, he’d be devastated if you died. As for the argument over his girl best friend, it’s completely normal for you to be uncomfortable about it. Make sure he knows that you’re uncomfortable about his girl best friend cause it’s better he knows and he understands why you were like that. The tweet got deleted straight away, you saw your wrong doing but she saw it and probably got hurt, if you’re ever annoyed, angry, frustrated at someone never put it on a social networking site, putting them on there make things worse. Speak to him about having a relationship again. Maybe a break made you both realise you both needed each other more than you originally thought and make sure he knows you’re truly sorry for hurting him and you want to try again. All the best x

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Anonymous
Hi. I've seen people get help from your page. I can't tell my story in only 250 characters, but I need to let it out. Is there any other way to tell you? Thanks

You can tell us on here and you can carry it onto another ask as long as you put something at the end, something distinctive e.g. muffin- (at the end of one) and -muffin (at the beginning at another one). People do do this and we get a more accurate story and we can help better.

1 day ago • 1 notes



Anonymous
I am in an ldr. My boyfriend was in town for a few days, and we'd been planning our first date for weeks. The day before, he goes to lunch with his ex. We already talked about it and I don't want to bring it up, but it still bothers me. What do I do?

Bring it up with him and ask him why he went out to lunch with his ex. It seems extremely suspicious. If he’s in a long distance relationship with you he shouldn’t be going out to lunch with his ex. You really do need to speak to him about it again and you need to say it really bothers you because it’s weird and suspicious. Also, ask him what his reaction would be if you went out for lunch with an ex of yours. If you don’t have an ex just tell him to imagine if you did and went out to lunch with them. If he cares for you then he’d say he’d be a little miffed.

2 days ago • 0 notes



Anonymous
I'm so stressed about school. I have a French speaking exam tomorrow and I've only learned the first paragraph because every time I memorise it. It goes straight from my head and I'm panicking and I don't know what to do. Help 😰

First, calm down. Secondly, try to memorise the most important words first then the least important. If you don’t remember the least important, don’t panic. Most of the time in French speaking exams the examiners look for if what you say makes kinda sense, if most of it is understandable then you get good marks. Don’t panic too much.

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