Q: I wrote my friend a lemon for a fanfic she was writing and her older sister saw it and said a bunch of terrible things to me. I was so upset and scared that I had a panic attack. Now I'm afraid to go over that house in fear of seeing her even though my friend said her sister was joking. This was a while ago and apparently it WAS a joke, her sister just thought freaking me out would be funny. But I still can't shake the anxiety about it. How can I learn to let it go?

Face it. You’re going to be scared until you just do it. Try not to think about it and think about good things. You will feel great after you finally just over come it.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I have no clue why but I'll go most of the day without drinking, I'll be thirsty and still won't drink. Well today I spent the day out on the lake and I think I pushed that too far my head hurts a lot I'm thirsty and tired and I keep drinking but it's not helping. Have a pushed it too far with dehydrating myself...? It kind of scares me.

Even if you aren’t thirsty you should drink. It’s very important to drink water. Be careful, this has happened to me before. Don’t go walking off alone and take it easy. Drink lots and lots of water.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I found out that my ex best friend has been self harming in these past few months and it broke my heart bc I care about her

Then why don’t you get in contact with her? If you care about someone, you should be there for them. She is going to appreciate it.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I'm super worried that I've gained weight over the summer. I've been exercising practically everyday, and have tried dieting but I'm still super stressed about my physical appearance.

Don’t be stressed! Stress can actually cause you to gain weight. Live life and have fun. Don’t let it be on your mind all the time. Exercising and eating healthy is good enough, you can’t be perfect.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: My best friend just told me through a Facebook comment that she's switching schools this year and I'm in shock and so upset. She's pretty much the only friend i have and I feel so alone.

I am so sorry! You can get through it and you can make other friends! That doesn’t mean replace her at all. Luckily we have social media and you guys can stay i touch. Stay strong.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I'm gonna be a freshman and I'm terrified because I'm so self conscious about myself and I know that people will judge me

At first being a freshmen is hard but after a few weeks it gets easy and you stop caring what people think. After a whole people stop talking and stop judging you.
~Sam


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Q: people tell me all the time "you're so pretty!!" when in reality I don't feel or look pretty at all. I don't get it why people continue to feel the need to lie to me. or at least that's how I feel.

You feel like they’re lying but in all actuality they aren’t. They’re telling you you’re pretty because you really are hun.
~Sam


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Q: A few days ago my parents told us they were divorcing now I'm learning all these things about my mom and I knew she was the one who ended it and she had an affair I only knew of one she's had like over five I'm so scared and I want to love my mom but right now I can't I try and I can't I'm just so hurt and I feel like I have no one around me and it makes me cry I hate life right now I hate everything right now I can't stand it and it's only been like 4 or 5 days since they told us but it's hard

Of course it’s hard, it’s your parents and you love them. I think you should stay with your dad for a while so then he can have somebody and you can learn to eventually forgive your mom and love her again. It’ll be a tough process as far as the divorce goes and seeing your parents date other people after will be even harder but it turns out to be okay.
~Sam


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Q: When I was 9 i was kidnapped and rape, now today years later the dude who did that is not in jail and so I'm not allowed my picture online because he could find me but everyone I talk too are getting sick of not seeing me and now they're ignoring me because I wont show them even in a private chat but they don't understand no matter how hard i try to explain but I don't want to lose them.

Do they know the situation you’re in? If they cared about you they would understand. You have to protect yourself first.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: Part and I offered my opinion like he does for me when I rant and then suddenly I got no response. Well tonight, I see him. And he didn't say a word. He stared at me for a few seconds and then walked out. I can't have him leave me. He's the only thing pushing me to continue with recovery. How do I fix this?

"So me and my best friend were talking a few nights ago about some deeper stuff. Virginity, sex, and some related things that I had done in my past. Well he and I were fine until the next night when we were talking and he randomly quit respondin. I ignored it thinking he had a phone call then he didn’t wanna wake me up by chance. Then last night he and I talked again and he ranted to me about something happening (continued in part 2)"

I think you should give him some space. It might be awkward for him right now knowing this information about you. If he doesn’t come around soon ask him why he’s been like this lately. ~Sam
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