Q: I screwed up and I hate myself for it. My best friend made me so angry and I let it be known. He apologized and all but it doesn't help. He simply ended the convo afterwards. I hate myself so much because he's the only guy I trust and love and the only person I fully trust with everything. This all started with a stupid argument over my boyfriend.. I'm an idiot. How do I fix this?

Talk it out! Say your thoughts and let him share his. Tell him what you just told me, that you trust and love him. You aren’t an idiot, and it can be fixed!

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I only told my friend that i cut right before school ended now she is not contacting me all summer so i dont know if i should contact her. What do you think?I know this is a dumb question but please respond

Contact her! Don’t be afraid to reach out to her.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: (In reply to guy two/three hours away) When we talked before about long distance, he didn't seem to really be up for it. But I don't want to bring that kind of thing up because I don't know how he feels and don't want to make things weird..

If you don’t bring it up, you’ll never know! It might be weird at first but just ask him how he feels about it. Make sure he knows you aren’t pressuring him, just tell him you want to know.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: im having to force conversations out of my bestfriend other we never actually talk, she prefers to talk to her online friends and i have those too, but shes totally ignoring me and i wouldnt ever make her feel like this, it just hurts

Maybe since your friend likes connecting with people online, just go online and talk to her. Maybe she is afraid to talk face to face with you. 

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I've being waiting for him since summer 2012. I don't know. I want him but I just don't know anymore.

Have you told him?

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: So I have been friends with this guy for about three years now. At first, we were just talking as friends and every now and then, there have been signs of things potentially becoming quite serious. We've tried dating a few times, but it never feels like the "right time". We know that we both really like each other, maybe even love. I am starting to fall more and more each day and I have no idea how to tell him that I am. I just really hope he feels the same :/

The simple answer is just: Tell him! But I know what you’re thinking, every time you go to tell him it just won’t come out. You are scared of rejection, but rejection is everywhere in your life. If you can just be willing to just put it out there, then it will make you feel better. He might even feel the same way and was afraid to say so as well. Just take that one step!

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I pretend to all my friends that I made out with a boy when I went overseas but I've never had my first kiss.

If it is really bothering you, then tell them the truth. It will feel good to let the weight off your shoulders. Sometimes lies lead to another lie and it’s best to stop the cycle before you get in too deep.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: My bestfriend since I was two had been treating me badly for 2 years. She even pushed me on front of a car at one point. Then, 2 more girls came into the question and when I stood up for myself, she never talked to me again and is making my life a living hell. Whenever I make a new friend, she tells lies to them about me and they never talk to me again. I feel so alone and depressed and I want to cry, but I can't. Now it's summer, and social media is making the whole thing worse. Please help. 😢

Your friend is obviously not a good friend! You can make new friends, they don’t all have to be from school or other places where your friend can get a hold of them. Cut off all ties with your friend, block people on social media that need to be blocked. Don’t let bad people get you down, you can do so much better. It’s cliche, but it’s true.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: I like this guy. He is friends with one of my best friends and that's how we met. Anyway, the guy I like is super hard to read so I couldn't tell if he liked me or what he wanted from me, yanno? Last night he told me he's scared to date me because he doesn't want me to share everything with my best friend that he shares with me (my best friend is a guy and he's also the guy I like's best friend). I told the guy I like that it wouldn't be like that, but I still don't think he's gonna ask me out..

Take things slow. Be good friends, earn his trust. It takes time for someone to just put trust into another person. Don’t rush things at all and let him take his time. Even tell him about your plans so he knows you’re still interested but you’re willing to put it on hold for his sake.

-xoxo, Chels


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Q: There's this guy who I think I might like, but he lives two/three hours away from me and I've never met him. I've liked him before and we talked about dating when we went to uni if we were closer but we won't be... Any advice?

Long distance relationships can be tough but it’s not impossible. You just need trust and communication. You guys can always meet in the future, two/three hours isn’t that long of a drive. Talk to him and ask his opinions on long distance relationships and go from there.

-xoxo, Chels


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